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newbluechampion

31 / M / Gay / Single

Gastonia, North Carolina

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:56pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
I'm just plain me. I'm a fairly average person in most ways. I believe in balance in all things; I blend optimism and pessimism, realism and idealism. My values are a blend of tradition and progress.

I seek happiness above all things. I also want to make a positive difference in the world. I like having new experiences and meeting new people. I'm friendly and open. I'd like to explore the world, when I get the chance.

I am arrogant, charismatic, and articulate

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What I’m doing with my life
I'm a teacher. I teach high school English, and I just got my masters in reading at the secondary level. I'm also a part-time instructor at the local Sylvan Learning Center.

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I’m really good at
I'm good at bringing out the best in people, at seeing the positive in most situations, at solving problems and getting organized, and at writing long but grammatically correct sentences. I'm good at board games and video games, too. Woot!
I am not so good at it, but I really enjoy rock climbing and would love to find a regular partner.

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The first things people usually notice about me
Eyes... I have pretty blue eyes. And a great smile. I smile often and easily. Not to mention my sweet personality.

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
a) I love reading. That's why I'm an English teacher. I mostly enjoy contemporary literature, but I like a wide variety of books. I have a few all time favorites, including (but not limited to) The Dice Man by Luke Rhinehart, Anansi Boys and Stardust by Neil Gaiman, The Town That Forgot How to Breathe by Kenneth J. Harvey, Q&A by Vikas Swarup, and The Catcher in the Rye by J.D. Salinger. Currently Reading: A Dance with Dragons by George R. R. Martin.

b) In general, I enjoy a wide variety of genres--comedy, horror, musical, martial arts, and suspense. Some all-time favorites are Slumdog Millionaire and the Saw series. Most recent movie I saw in theaters: The Cabin in the Woods.

c) I like a variety of music, and I love concerts! My current favorites are Gym Class Heroes and Fall Out Boy. Most recent concert: Gym Class Heroes.

d) Your boy can cook! I'm trying to reduce what I eat, though. I like almost everything except seafood.

e) TV: Top Chef, Project Runway, Pushing Daisies (sad that it got canceled) :-( Lie To Me

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The six things I could never do without
1. a positive outlook
2. a gym membership
3. a credit card
4. My iPhone
5. the internet
6. a source of entertainment

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
whatever is on my mind at the moment. I think a lot. About pretty much everything. I tend to overanalyze.

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On a typical Friday night I am
somewhere. There is no such thing as "typical" with me.

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a need to feel perfect about everything, but it's not so bad as it used to be.

I just got out of a long term relationship. I'm not in "rebound" or "desperately seeking" mode... just casually testing my feet in the waters again. I'm a little reluctant to get involved quickly at this time. Slow and steady.

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I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 26–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
you are an intelligent and interesting person who would like to talk to a like-minded individual.

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